Socializing is all about teaching our dogs how to interact appropriately with others while respecting their individual needs, writes dog behaviourist Darran Rowe.
Taking your dog to the park is a fantastic opportunity for them to socialize, but it’s important to keep an eye on how they’re interacting with others.
Here are a few tips to ensure a smooth and enjoyable experience for everyone:
Loose Body Language: When dogs meet, their body language says it all! Look for relaxed, loose movements—wagging tails, soft eyes, and calm posture. If a dog’s body is stiff or they’re holding their tail high and rigid, it might be a sign they’re feeling stressed. Encourage your dog to stay relaxed, and watch for signs of tension in others too.
Balanced Energy: In a well-balanced group of dogs, energy should be evenly distributed. No dog should feel singled out or set upon by others. Interactions and play should feel inclusive and fun for all involved. If one dog is constantly being chased or overwhelmed, it can lead to stress or even reactive behaviors. Make sure every dog has a chance to engage and take breaks when needed.
Respectful Play: Play is important, but it should be respectful. Dogs should take turns and share space without overwhelming one another. If one dog becomes too persistent, step in and give them a gentle break. Allowing dogs to ‘self-regulate’ their play ensures that everyone is comfortable and happy.
Watch for Signs of Overstimulation: Not every interaction will be perfect, and that’s okay. Keep an eye on the dogs to see if any are getting overstimulated or uncomfortable. If you notice a dog starting to show signs of stress (like growling, baring teeth, or retreating), it’s time to give them some space and allow them to cool down.
Socializing is all about teaching our dogs how to interact appropriately with others while respecting their individual needs.
A little mindfulness and awareness from us as owners goes a long way in creating a fun, safe environment for all the dogs at the park.
Darran Rowe is a postgraduate qualified Clinical Animal Behaviourist with a wealth of expertise rooted in science and a deep understanding of canine emotions. As the founder of Mindfulness4dogs, Darran has helped thousands of dogs and their owners overcome behavioral and training challenges, using positive, evidence-based strategies that ensure long-lasting results.
